About Me
Hi, I’m Kaitlynn. Welcome! I’m a homeschooling, homemaking, homesteading stay-at-home mom of 4 (one girl, then three boys). I’m a contractor’s wife who always has gardening and home projects for him to do on his days off from his property management business. I bake on the weekends, and live for summer. Our family of 6 lives in the beautiful Great Lakes region of Ontario, Canada.
I cook from scratch most of the time, but pizza is my favourite food, and I feel relieved knowing I have chicken fingers in the freezer. I believe in getting your hands dirty, but also washing your hands. I plant everything by seed, but buy my herbs already potted. I believe in learning to be more self-sufficient, but I rest easier when no one knows about my secret stash of toilet paper.
Get what I’m saying? Life is about balance. The world will try to tell you life is black and white, but I’m here to tell you to live in the gray (grey? It doesn’t matter!) We live in a world of extremes, of no middle ground, of all or nothing. But there IS a middle ground, and it’s called balance and moderation. It’s where contentment and less stress live. It’s a wonderful land. How do you get there? The moment you give yourself permission to do things sometimes and not all the time is the moment your life changes and you can stress less and experience more joy.
I’m just a mom doing mom things, like you. Welcome. Or, as I like to say, “sorry for the mess, but we live here.”
Gardening and Homesteading
I never thought I’d be a green thumb since I couldn’t even keep a succulent alive long-term (I mean, they thrive on no water, right? What could possibly go wrong?)
But in April 2022, we quickly and unexpectedly went from a 1,200 square foot apartment with a small balcony as our only outdoor space, to a 100 acre farm with a garden almost triple the size of our apartment (3,234 square feet, to be exact). We went from no pets to a flock of over three dozen laying hens, three rabbits, and an annual batch of 75 meat chickens.
It was my childhood home, and right after moving in, my parents went out west to visit my sister for 6 weeks, leaving me to plant the garden, something I’d never done and had never had interest in. But if there was going to be a garden that year (and I wanted there to be due to the food chain supply disruptions we had seen over the last couple of years), I had to learn to do it, and I had to learn fast.
It’s Never Too Late to Learn
So I went to YouTube University. I devoured everything I could about gardening. It was a steep learning curve, but I found because I had a “why” behind my motivation (which was simply wanting to learn to be more self-sufficient), I happily dove in head-first, and actually enjoyed it (there was some stress involved, mind you). That first garden was a success, and though the subsequent two have had their ups and downs, I’ve discovered that failure is just learning in disguise.
Fast forward two and a half years, and we have now moved to a house in town (I made sure it had a huge yard so I could continue homesteading). But the great part is, skills are transferable. In my time at the farm, not only did I teach myself how to garden, but also how to can, take care of chickens and rabbits, and bake with sourdough. Am I an expert at any of this? Absolutely not.
But if there’s anything I’ve learned, it’s that anyone can learn anything. And that’s what this blog is about. In the spare moments I can find in between homeschooling, homesteading, and homemaking, I will share the easy and tangible tips I’ve learned that have made learning any new skill less daunting, and more doable.
What Can You Expect Here?
Whether you want to learn how to homeschool, garden, harvest, preserve, cook real food from scratch with straightforward, no fuss recipes (even if you have picky eaters that make this endeavour more frustrating), bake with sourdough, raise chickens, or just become more self-sufficient and learn lost skills in general, this is the place for you. Let’s live more naturally, simply, slowly, traditionally (note I didn’t say easily).
And we’ll do all this without getting overwhelmed. Because believe it or not, there’s no right or wrong way to do any of those things. So we’ll take it slow, one step at a time. We’re all busy, so let’s be realistic about what we can handle in whatever season of life we’re in. Let’s stop comparing our Day One to someone else’s Year Five. No one can live up to that kind of pressure, so don’t put it on yourself.
I want this to be a space where you’re inspired and feel encouraged, enabled, and empowered to start whatever it is you’ve been wanting to start, or learn whatever it is you’ve been wanting to learn. Life is too short to let fear or doubt hold you back; it’s better when you make space for what you love.
After all, it’s the little things that make a big life.